Basically I'm Gay

Let me tell you a queer little story about a boy named Dan.
Follow me online to see the rest of my tale as it unfolds in real time:
And subscribe to my channel! (lol)
Content warning: this video contains far too much strong language and discussions of general sexuality, discriminatory language, bullying and an attempt on my own life. Otherwise totally appropriate for education, instilling good values in young children and my grandma who I will expect a disappointed text from.
Special thanks to for production assistance.
Art by Hector aka
Handel - Messiah
Camille Saint-Saëns - Danse Macabre
Tchaikovsky - 1812 Overture
Chopin - Fantasie Impromptu
Schubert - Ave Maria
Additional Music by Kevin Macleod
Disclaimer - This video is just a starting point for me, what I felt was the bare minimum (ha) required for me to get this out there so I can move forward with my life, a mix of explanation, justification and opinion. It scratched the surface of several things I could have gone into more detail about, but the purpose of this was to be ..reasonably concise and above all entertaining. In the future, in the right places, I will surely talk much more about everything touched on in this video and more. It’s also likely that something will get misunderstood or misrepresented, perhaps from the way I phrased things or people assuming my thoughts on things that I didn’t specify. Also my story is just the truth of what happened to me and what I thought at certain points of time in my environment, good and bad - of course not my opinions today. So JUST to be clear my opinion on general sexual and gender identities are that everyone is valid and deserves equal rights and the freedom to exist. The only thing I don’t tolerate is intolerance. Cheers to an inevitable bright future, either because people become nice and the old people die or the sun explodes first lmao.
Some resources and charities for anyone who needs support or wants to learn more:


  • bittersweetener

    i'm back for the fourth time

    37 minuti fa
  • Dacey Marston
    Dacey Marston

    "Some stupid hedgehog looking motherf***er" ~Daniel Howell 2k19

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  • JessicaFEREM

    I love your videos, and this is great. Thank you for all the years of great videos :)

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  • DWMSnIpez

    3:56 my life

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  • Sophie Eleanor123
    Sophie Eleanor123


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  • Qesho


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  • Madi Jensen
    Madi Jensen

    I forgot what it felt like to not feel so alone. Thank you Dan for reminding me.

    3 ore fa
  • Jace Ok
    Jace Ok

    Dan:And it apparently makes people fell attacked Dan:Shhhhh it’s ok

    3 ore fa
  • sxft txtorials
    sxft txtorials

    imagine after saying all of this,he found out the camera wasn’t recording 😹

    5 ore fa
  • Perfectly Sedate Endscreen Dance
    Perfectly Sedate Endscreen Dance

    i love you so much dan thank you so much ilu

    6 ore fa
  • Olivia Stuck
    Olivia Stuck

    ❤️❤️❤️ thanks Dan for making people in this community feel much more safe

    6 ore fa
  • Elle

    amazing video!

    7 ore fa
  • Skyler Barnett
    Skyler Barnett


    7 ore fa
  • Skyler Barnett
    Skyler Barnett

    But I love you, so..

    7 ore fa
  • Hilola Kahorova
    Hilola Kahorova

    Горжусь тобой !❤️

    10 ore fa
  • Christina Dewar
    Christina Dewar

    Glad you made it this far

    10 ore fa
  • your majesty,
    your majesty,

    i noticed that you have teared up a little during some parts of the video. i genuinely hope that you have recovered from all your hardships in your life & i am glad that you are a little more comfortable in your own skin.

    10 ore fa
  • A. S.
    A. S.

    I’m back here lol.... it’s 3am.

    12 ore fa
  • Lo0serx3

    all I can say is thanks for this.

    13 ore fa
  • Dog Person
    Dog Person

    Why does he look almost exactly like my friend and act exactly like her??? 🤨

    13 ore fa
  • Maya Cosmos
    Maya Cosmos

    The maze runner had me dying as well as Le Mis

    14 ore fa
  • Favour Lahai
    Favour Lahai

    As long as you are happy, that is good enough for me, I know, cliche, but I don’t know how else to word it. This is coming from a proud pansexual who’s flexible with pronouns despite being biologically female.

    14 ore fa
  • Dr. Thomas Rasberry
    Dr. Thomas Rasberry

    ... Runescape?

    14 ore fa
  • Dusty

    Can I get tldr please

    14 ore fa
  • Twista Sista
    Twista Sista

    To be fair, most of us aren’t surprised. You know what else? We wouldn’t have you any other way.

    14 ore fa
  • XxkillerslumberXx X
    XxkillerslumberXx X


    14 ore fa
  • Melanie Cook
    Melanie Cook

    I wish someone would call me their soul mate and actually mean it

    14 ore fa
  • Ryan Pace
    Ryan Pace

    I have never seen one of your videos but im here to show support you do you. Be proud of you.

    16 ore fa
  • terrenceswiff

    Strong video, dude.

    16 ore fa
  • Mi SS
    Mi SS

    This is literally the best video of the internet so far. We love you, Dan! Thank you for everything ♥️

    16 ore fa
  • Under Dog
    Under Dog


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  • Alexios Likes PATD and MCR don’t judge me
    Alexios Likes PATD and MCR don’t judge me

    I freaked out when he played Welcome To The Black Parade at 2:12 cuz that’s like my favorite song ever

    17 ore fa
  • Hello fellow internet dweller!
    Hello fellow internet dweller!

    Sweetie, masculinity is *still* so, so fragile.

    19 ore fa
  • C J
    C J

    Rewatching and I am *sobbing*

    19 ore fa
  • felicity capstick
    felicity capstick


    16 ore fa
  • Jay The Blue Gamer
    Jay The Blue Gamer

    You, dear, are an inspiration. Thank you so much for posting this!

    20 ore fa
  • The Orange Mustache
    The Orange Mustache

    💖💜💙 those are my colours

    21 ora fa
  • dollbaby cosmetics
    dollbaby cosmetics

    I am so PROUD and happy for him to feel comfortable with us to speak about this

    21 ora fa
  • Jon Snor
    Jon Snor

    Mental health awareness. And emo style the the only thing i actually like about emo culture, if not too bad, it cant be that bad, the hair.

    22 ore fa
  • Jon Snor
    Jon Snor

    Great video, with humor no less and it dresses all kind of issues why humans arent always great. Words arent enough to discribe it. The right opinion has a video full of praises nd analyting it for this video if you want positive earnest attention in another video, and see yoursel star in a youtube documentary.

    22 ore fa
  • Man of Cubes Destroyer of 4th Dimensional beings
    Man of Cubes Destroyer of 4th Dimensional beings


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  • caroline henley
    caroline henley

    A brief flashback to when we all died Some light evening viewing then :)

    23 ore fa
  • Emma loves Pretty odd
    Emma loves Pretty odd

    I love you but I hate that you g noted me Dan

    23 ore fa
  • yndestar 07
    yndestar 07

    Thake you fre caling me brave

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  • FantasyFire

    Thank you.

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  • blueberry folf
    blueberry folf

    Hey I found you by imallexx and I'm sorry for the stuff being spread around about you but I fully support you

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  • Lucy Hampshire
    Lucy Hampshire

    I don’t usually watch long videos, but I would watch Dan’s 45 minute long videos any day. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

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  • Nijay Sivarajan
    Nijay Sivarajan

    I fkin knew it

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  • Lydia The Tattooed Lady
    Lydia The Tattooed Lady

    So I'm intersex (XY chromosomes with female characteristics) and I've determined that my gender is internal screaming.

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  • Shahari Pudding
    Shahari Pudding

    I’m so glad you’re still here...and I’m glad I’m here too. I’m glad we both failed and took a second change at life, and I’m so glad that you’re sharing your life with us. In so many ways I feel like you’re a slightly older version of me, and you inspire me to hang in there.

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  • Jay Marble
    Jay Marble

    A year without uploading

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  • Jay Marble
    Jay Marble


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